How To Tell If A Guy Is Attracted To You At The Workplace

By Dee Blackmon


If you are considering asking out someone that you work with you are not alone. In a recent study conducted by the Vault.com It was found that almost 60% of those surveyed had participated in some form of workplace romance. Because you are around your co workers all day, often is situations that require trust and co-operation, it is not surprising that romance blossoms. There is also something irresistibly intriguing about the possibility of sleeping with someone that you have seen every day at work.
[How To Attract Women At Work Place]


A word of caution office relationships can get you in trouble. The last thing you want is to find out that you are being investigated for sexual harassment. A good rule of thumb is that if the woman you are hitting on is at the same level or senior to you its probably going to be OK. Problems typically occur when the woman you ask out reports directly to you. With women increasingly obtaining senior positions this should still leave you with plenty of opportunity, and hey, it might help your career!

Another great tip for how to attract women.First and foremost you need to understand that you are trying to get her attention. If you are just one of those bums out there that wore a tie and a coat to work, how in the world are you going to catch her attention?You need to look different and of course you need to encompass a different personality to feel different and exciting for her, so to speak, when she approaches you. If not, in the end, you are still someone she already knew and that means she does not want to know you anymore after she found that you are just another commoner and loser!

Let me address to you an example as how to look different and act different from everyone else. During one of my consultancy jobs, our general manager came to one of our seminars to give some encouragement. All of us were wearing long sleeve shirts and some wore black jackets or coats or blazers and ties to go along. Amazingly, when the general manager turned up, he wore a white coat with a round neck T-shirt with no tie! My goodness, he looked like some gangster from out of town and everyone were mesmerized by his looks and charisma. He spoke few words, but with humour and power that made us even more captivated to do our best for the seminar.

So, what is the law of attraction? It's the idea that like things attract each other. And though that seems an odd place to learn how to attract beautiful women (because after all, most of the people reading this article are not beautiful women--though, please feel free to continue if you are!), it's actually the optimal place. This is because if you want to attract beautiful women, you have to have something that they want. You have to be attractive to them. Now, the question is how? Do you have to be just like them? No. But you have to be enough like them to find rapport so that you can find common ground (and also, people feel more comfortable around people that are similar to them).

And honestly, most guys do this to their detriment. They forget how similar they are to the women they're talking to in their quest to be machismo or "who they really are". I mean, think about it, how often do you look at a beautiful women and then consider all the reasons she won't like you and why she'd reject you? If you're like most men this is your problem.

Now that you have her alone you can do one of two things. If you feel she is responding well but perhaps not ready to get physical you can suggest something else that you could do together sometime, like going to a photo exhibition or a cool Japanese fusion place you know about. Then ask for her phone number if you don't already have it. However if you have had a few drinks, and the feeling is right, go for the kiss.Of course there is the possibility something will go wrong and she might turn you down. But better to take your chance and fail than to be left wondering what could have been.It seems that just as a man thinks he has attracting a woman all figured out, he realizes he does not know a thing!Rather than trying so hard to figure out women, men would do well to spend some time on themselves. Men would do better focusing on personal habits rather than attracting women; that will work better than simply trying to figure out women.

One of the most-unique things on how to attract women is to exercise some mystery in you. Make sure women keeps on wondering how you like her and things that makes you attracted to her. Avoid instances where the woman gets to know that she has got you already as this will be one of the most boring things to do. Getting bored means she looses interest fast. One way to be mysterious is to tease her. Avoid instances where she thinks you are worshiping her. Playing mystery can be one unique way on how to attract women.

A man who is learning on how to attract women should work on their confidence element each day. Simple ways to be confident includes how you sit when you are with her, how you stand and having a good eye contact. There are many sites and books out there that help one to learn some confidence tips and they are recommended. A confident man is sure of what they want and will help in providing emotional security to women. Confidence helps a man to stand out among the crowd as they are unique and aware of what the women want.

In addition to hair, men should also be sure that their nails and hands are free of dirt. Proper skin care can also attract women to a man.Clothing is another area where men struggle. Women are attracted to men who are well put-together and wrinkle free. If a man is unsure what colors match and what styles best suit him, he should go to several different stores and seek the help of a sales consultant.Improving appearance also has a side benefit of improving self esteem. Women will be attracted to men who feel confident in themselves rather than those who are not so sure about themselves or their appearance.The way a man views himself is generally the way a woman will view him as well. If a man does not feel good about the person he is, he should consider therapy so that he can attract a woman who will value him for who he is.

No matter how well you look, how rich you are and even your interests, without good conversational skills you will not learn on how to attract women in the first place. A man should show that they know how to make interactions with the lady any time. This can be learned through practice. Being confidence in social situations means one is displaying good leadership skills.

A man who is being himself not only knows exactly who he is, he is unwilling to compromise his behavior in order to please other people. Women are attracted to men who stand for what they believe in and do not back down from a moral challenge.Being yourself also means being honest and sincere. Women are attracted to men who know themselves well and project themselves in a positive way. Women are attracted to men who will be honest with them during tough times.When a man knows who he is, is not ashamed of who he is, and tries to be sincere and honest at all times, he will attract women with little difficulty.Another great way for men to attract women is cultivating an interest in her hobbies.By showing interest and being willing to participate in her interests, a man is showing a woman that what is important to him is important to her.A woman who knows a man is trying to tune into what she feels is important is attracted to him. She feels that the man is more concerned with making her happy than making himself happy.In closing, attracting a woman is sometimes more about a man knowing who he is and taking care of personal grooming habits rather than it asking every woman he meets for a date. Taking time to attend to personal appearance and moral character are great ways of attracting women.




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